Discover which stage your relationship is in

Answer 14 questions to get your Power Struggle to Peace score...

 

  • It takes just 2 minutes
  • It’s completely free
  • Receive customised results instantly

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The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life.

I'm Shan Merchant, Couples Therapist and relationships expert.

(MA Psych. UKCP accredited) 

I help couples who are stuck in the painful Power Struggle stage of their relationship to reconnect & put their wedding rings back on. I do this by teaching them a single, powerful communication method that brings back real warmth, affection and connection.

If this test tells you that you're deep in the Power Struggle with your partner, don't worry, recognising this is the first step in changing it. 

Get your Power Struggle to Peace score, and you'll immediately get your results, plus some personalised tips and advice tailored to you. 

Here's how it works:

Communication

Are you filling your days with the loving looks, words, and touches required for a healthy, relationship? Let's see.

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Conflict Resolution

What happens when you fight? We'll assess what kind of behavioural patterns you get into when conflict inevitably arises.

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Connection

Are you regularly making efforts to show up for your relationship?We'll explore how you go about strengthening your bond. 

What people are saying

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It's great to get an expert's eye on how our relationship's doing and what we need to improve. Thanks!

Bethany L.
Brisbane, Australia

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I'm seeing our relationship in a whole new light.

Sharon M.
London, UK

It’s free, and only takes 2 minutes

Answer 14 multiple choice questions and instantly see which stage you're at and how to improve.

AT THE END OF THE QUIZ...

Get your copy of From Power Struggle to Peaceful Couple

Once you've completed your assessment, you'll be able to download From Power Struggle to Peaceful Couple so that you can start learning how to turn your greatest conflicts into growth.

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